This principle will change your life. Seriously.

You may have heard it referred to as The Law Of Attraction or The Secret. Whatever you call it, this is an ancient spiritual law that rules over every single experience you have as a human being, and it imbues you with incredible power to create the life you want to live.

What is the Law Of Attraction?

It’s very simple to put into play, but takes a little getting used to.

If you think thoughts that match the vibration of what you want, you will get what you want. Click To Tweet

Boom. That’s it. That’s literally how the world works.

How do I use the Law of Attraction?

My friend, spiritual teacher Gabby Bernstein, says you should ask yourself,

How can I feel better and therefore be an energetic match for attracting more greatness into my life?

You’re no longer thinking, “I need this relationship” or “I need this money,” but rather “I know a crazy important, healing, fun romance is headed to me and I’m getting ready for it” or “I’m full of gratitude knowing that money is coming into my life.”

The difference is that you are not coming from an emotional place of lack or scarcity. Now, you’re coming from a place of abundance, which matches the energy of the abundant love or money or work you want in your life. Like attracts like, and you are now a perfect match for what it is you want.

Law of Attraction success stories

Once you get into the groove of it, you’ll start to see your life around you change.

I used this principle to attract an important romance into my life, which is what I really wanted after almost 10 years of living in New York City and feeling lost in love. (That relationship didn’t last, but I experienced a trust and intimacy with my then-boyfriend that I never thought I’d be able to experience. In that sense, the relationship was a dazzling success — really.)

My life coaching client created a vision board and placed on it a picture of cool red sneakers he wanted and a picture of a TV. (He’s always wanted to be a television chef.) Within a couple of weeks, my client’s boyfriend had gifted him with red sneakers. Most amazingly, he also sent me a snapshot of his cooking cameo on The Rachael Ray Show.

This stuff works, but you don’t just throw a few images on a vision board or think a couple lovely thoughts per day. No, you actually begin to deeply shift your energy from a standpoint of lack and doubt to a standpoint of abundance and a deep knowing that everything you need will be given to you, and perhaps in a most magical way.

There’s a wonderful line from A Course In Miracles:

Those who are sure of the outcome can afford to wait and wait without anxiety. Click To Tweet

With all my love,

XO